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5 Reasons Introverts Dislike Phone Calls
If you’re an introvert, maybe you don’t like talking on the phone. Maybe you hate making or receiving calls most of the time. Maybe you feel anxious hearing the ring or buzz of your phone. Or your heart pounds when you’re dialing someone, scattered mind feverishly wondering what’s to come. Or you go out of…
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Ways I Disappoint My Asian Parents Again and Again
When you come from an Asian family, there are usually strict cultural norms to live up to. On the occasions you don’t, chances are you probably disappoint your Asian parents. Different Asian parents, and parents in general, have different expectations of their children. But the benchmark tends to be high in Asian households. Growing up…
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11 Ways To Respond To ‘Why Are You So Quiet?’
If you’re an introvert or usually not much of a talker, you’ve probably been asked, ‘Why are you so quiet?’. You’ve also probably wondered how to respond to this question. You might feel this question is annoying, rude or not polite, feel that you’re being judged for being quiet or silent. Or judged for simply…
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7 Differences Between Asian and Western Beauty Standards
Every culture has their own perceptions of beauty. While there are similarities, Asian and Western cultures often have very different beauty standards. Certain looks are often favoured in Asian cultures. In Western cultures and for many Caucasians, the ‘ideal look’ can be very different. Having lived in both Asia and Australia, I’ve noticed different people…
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Why Does It Take So Long To Write A Book?
Writing a book takes a lot of time and effort. You don’t write a book overnight, let alone publish one and become an author in a day. Whether you are writing a novel, self-help guide, travelogue or memoir, it can take months, years or even a lifetime to write a book. Depending on the nature…
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7 Ways To Stop Talking To Someone Without Being Rude
There are times when you’ll encounter people who are up for a chat and will talk away. But you don’t want to talk and want to avoid them. You might wonder: how do you stop talking to someone without being rude? How do you end a conversation politely, especially if the other person won’t stop…
Mabel Kwong 