Hi, I’m Mabel.
I’m a writer, blogger, introvert and more.
On this blog you’ll find my thoughts about multiculturalism, cultural habits and what it means to be Asian in Australia. This blog is also a space where I share my passion for writing – and where I motivate others to be creative no matter their cultural background.
I was born in Melbourne, Australia, to Chinese-Malaysian migrant parents. For a decade, I lived in Malaysia and Singapore, finishing school in Asia and then moving back to Melbourne.
Living in different countries, I’ve learnt to appreciate diversity. Different cultures make the world interesting. When you interact with people from different backgrounds, you see things from different perspectives.
I believe it takes an open mind to facilitate conversations with people of different cultures and ethnicities. We all have different opinions, different roles and are unique in our own ways. None of us have all the answers to every question. In fact, the world and cultures are constantly changing. The least we can do is listen and learn from others.
Being Asian Australian and introverted
Quite often, I find myself transitioning between a persona favouring Chinese values and a persona taking on the Australian / Western mindset.
I’ve always felt either too Asian or not-Asian enough in countless situations. It didn’t help that I was a quiet introvert growing up and still am. My parents, teachers, colleagues and friends labelled me, ‘too quiet’ and ‘so shy’ while encouraging me to excel at science instead of writing which I loved. I was conditioned to be a model-minority Asian stereotype.
For a long time I felt like a letdown, confused about my reserved personality and cross-cultural affiliations, having no confidence as a writer. The more I tried being the life of the party and speaking up at every opportunity, the more drained and ‘not enough’ I felt – especially in a predominantly Anglo-Saxon Australia where many are extroverted. Or just loud.
One day I realised the fire within me to write and motivate others through words wasn’t going away. I realised writing stories always makes me feel alive, just as intertwining both logic and creativity within words to enhance others’ perceptions speaks to me.
I then completed studies in cultural studies, focusing on ethnic identity construction and performance through media and digital communications platforms. While studying, I spent solitary weeks on end honing persuasive writing techniques and applied research expertise – and never felt more comfortable being productive and present in silence and stillness.
Following that I keenly worked in journalism and radio in Melbourne. The likable-outgoing-personality driven industry made me realise that a media career wasn’t for me.
Thereafter I took on freelance writing work and started this blog. Again I thrived working on my own, trusting my inner voice and nurturing my subconscious mind to awaken clarity surrounding my craft. Using writing as a tool to help others reflect and reach their potential, I mentored private clients on articulating their online brand, contributed self-help features for publications and built a highly engaged global audience on this blog.
Today I’m a proud quiet creative and embrace both Asian and Western personas. I’m an accomplished writer who still listens before speaking, takes off shoes at home and saves more than I spend. Still a stereotype.
Being an introvert caught in-between cultures is often seen as problematic and not normal. It shouldn’t be. Being a part of different cultures is a privilege, and introverts are deep thinkers, thoughtful decision-makers and generous friends.
You don’t have to be outspoken to make an impact in the creative sphere or anywhere else. You can be quiet, average and hide from the world yet still find success and purpose in what you do.
My written work
Guided by introversion and intuition, I help you balance conflicting cultural identities while cultivating creative passions. Through my narrative non-fiction writing, I help you accept and most importantly own your unique identities – building confidence in what you do and rising above limiting cultural beliefs.
My writing primarily revolves around exploring the significance of everyday traits, traditions and lifestyle habits, and crafting in-depth reads on negotiating cultural identities and analysing transience within social mobility in a globalised society. Through my blog and broader work, I encourage others to:
- Identify and harness both stereotypical and non-stereotypical traits as strengths
- Gain insights into managing cultural identity crisis and prioritising self-acceptance
- Acquire ways to have honest, level-headed conversations on culturally sensitive topics
- Learn strategies to balance being realistic and quietly, confidently pursue creative passions
My interests and other topics I write about include Asian diasporas, media relations, the writing process and self-improvement.
Outside of this blog, I take on freelance writing work. I’m also writing a book about being Asian Australian and the challenges of being creative. In my spare time I am a landscape photographer, read, play video games and practice inner work.
Thanks for reading.