Tag: Customs

  • Why Asians Don’t Say “I Love You” To Their Parents

    Why Asians Don’t Say “I Love You” To Their Parents

    “I love you, mom, dad.” That’s something we hear children and adults alike say to their parents in movies and TV shows. And in everyday life, of course. But funnily enough, be it in reality or the fictional worlds, the phrase of affection “I love you” is rarely uttered by Asians to their parents, whether…

  • Why Some Of Us Wear Shoes At Home

    Why Some Of Us Wear Shoes At Home

    Recently, I fleshed out a few reasons why many Asians tend to leave their shoes at the door and go barefoot at home. In reality, some of us don’t share this love of taking our shoes off before going indoors. Some of us especially in the Western world don’t recoil in horror at the thought…

  • Hi, I’m Asian. Come In, Leave Your Shoes On. Or Not

    Hi, I’m Asian. Come In, Leave Your Shoes On. Or Not

    When I lived at home and an odd job or two needed to be done around our place, my mum welcomed the likes of contractors, plumbers and furniture delivery men into our Melbourne flat. When she opened the door, these Caucasian handymen and tradesmen always politely asking, “Do we take our shoes off?” And to…